ABOUT
The Premise
To “hold the pen” is to control the final language — of a bill, a deal, a decision that matters.
This is a small, off-the-record dinner series bringing together women building their careers, with the senior leaders who've already made that climb.
Each gathering brings together a handful of leaders in government relations and business for an evening of real conversation — on leadership, influence, and what it actually takes to sit where the decisions get made.
Meet the Founder
Arielle Thomas founded Holding the Pen to create the kind of conversations she wished existed—intimate, candid discussions with the women shaping consequential decisions across business and public policy.
As a government relations leader with experience at the intersection of technology, policy, and business, Arielle has spent her career navigating complex issues, building relationships, and working alongside leaders responsible for some of the most consequential decisions facing organizations today. Throughout that journey, she recognized a gap: while women are increasingly leading at the highest levels, there are few spaces dedicated to honest conversations about how they got there, how they navigate difficult decisions, and what leadership looks like behind closed doors.
Holding the Pen was created to fill that gap.
Through thoughtfully curated salons and conversations, Arielle brings together accomplished women in government relations and business — those building their path toward corporate executive leadership, and those holding the pen today — to share the defining moments, lessons, and perspectives behind success. Her goal is simple: to elevate the voices of women who have earned the trust to lead, inspire meaningful dialogue, and help the next generation of leaders better understand what it takes to shape decisions that matter.
Arielle currently serves as a Senior Manager of Government Relations at NEC Corporation of America, a multinational emerging technology company. She has been awarded and recognized for her advocacy efforts by the Security Industry Association and Women in Security Forum. She is a member of the Board of Directors for Women in Government Relations. She is a frequent speaker and moderator on issues at the intersection of technology, government relations, and leadership.
FAQs
Is Holding the Pen invitation-only?
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Yes. Guest lists are curated for each dinner to ensure genuine chemistry and a shared level of experience at the table. If you'd like to be considered for a future gathering, you can request an invitation above.
Who typically attends?
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Ambitious women in government relations, policy, corporate affairs, and business — professionals building real influence in their careers, seated alongside a senior guest of honor for an honest, off-the-record conversation about how she got there
What does "off the record" actually mean?
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When it comes to our salon dinners, what's shared at the table stays at the table. Guests are free to speak candidly, and nothing discussed is repeated, attributed, or shared publicly.
Is there a cost to attend?
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Yes, a modest per-seat contribution to help offset the cost of the evening. Details are shared directly with invited guests.
Where are dinners held?
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Currently in Washington, D.C., with plans to expand to additional cities as the series grows.